I think at some point, girls or guys need to hear this from someone they care about.
Even when she ends the conversation, you keep it going. She expects you to make her feel better. If you just go with the flow, her thoughts will eat her alive. She’ll feel even 10x worse. She wants you to try. Even if you fail, she will realize the fact you tried to bring her happiness back. You proved to her that you’re willing to give in 100% in any cirumstances.
his pledge to her:
i will kill the spiders. i will share my fries with you when you’ve finished all yours and are still hungry. i won’t ever pop my collar. i will never be rude to your tummy- when i hear it growl and gurgle, i promise to bend down and reply respectfully. i will eat the mushrooms when we order the supreme pizza. i will kiss the papercuts. and the door-slammed finger. and the counter-bumped hip. i’ll try my hardest not to get annoyed when you whisper questions and comments during movies. i will be the big spoon. i will let you win at wrestling. sometimes. other times i will not. i will go faster. harder. i will pull when you want. and tease you when you don’t. i will send you random texts and leave you silly gifts. not always. not on schedule. just whenever i want to. whenever i think you need one. or seven. i will check your tire pressure. and remind you to take your car in. i will hold your hand. i will love you. i will love you. i will love you.